New studies are showing that key words can determine if people are more compatible. They also show talking styles with people whom talk similarly communicate better. Are these claims real or is it just happenstance?
Communicating is how we let our words convey or thoughts and ideas. Being on the same page can bring people closer. People, who talk similar, communicate with each other similar. This can affect the closeness of friends or help in romantic relationships (Bower, 2010).
Bruce Bower wrote an article titled: Shared Talking Styles Herald New and Lasting Romance. In this article claims are made that talking styles that are alike between people ...view middle of the document...
Physical attraction has to be top on the list in this situation. The study suggests that the language skill subsides as relationships wane. This should come as no shock to anyone. Once the physical attraction or the honeymoon period is over, many relationships fall apart. This is the time when the people now know the real you. How you relate with common language skills and listening skills will decide the outcome of every relationship.
We have the ability to adapt our communication skills to relate in different situation. The more we know and grow with our language and it changes throughout our life and how we communicate. Our education level or how we see ourselves allows us to change our skills making it conceivable to improve our level of speech to communicate with everyone effectively. So this study can have too many variables to really mean too much.
I took the Language Style Matching test. I received a .83. I feel this is probably fairly accurate. When I write or email another, I realize they cannot see my face to get clues for my meanings, so I try to...