1) What is your favourite social interaction site? Why?
2) To what extent is your communication there impersonal and non-interpersonal?
3) In what areas is your communication most hyper-personal?
4) To what extent has CMC helped your interpersonal communication?
5) In what ways has CMC hindered your interpersonal communication?
Social media is a very integral part of my life now, with my phone by my side all the time. I seem to log onto to Facebook most often, with it being the first site I go to whenever I turn on my laptop as well. It is a social platform that allows people to connect one many different levels, with messenger, photos uploads, status updates and file sharing. Groups are also created to form virtual communities of the same interest for people to connect. It is THE all-in-one social networking site, ...view middle of the document...
This allows for interactivity which can extend to a wide network. Also, emoticons on messenger allow for emotions to be transmitted through CMC, they may not be as accurate as in face to face but it still helps. However, non-verbal cues are still limited through Facebook as things that people post on it can be edited and thought through carefully before posting, it too does not allow people to observe other’s behaviours.
Communication is hyper-personal on Facebook as people accept friend requests from people who you are not actually that close to in real life. Hence, from the status updates and the posts of photos and videos, there tend to be an over-attribution of how that person is like. Over time after exposure to the constant posts, how I perceive the person is already determined. Comments I would leave on their photos and posts are not reflective of how I would talk to that person in real life, I may respond to that person online on messenger but in real life I don’t really know how to start a topic.
CMC has helped my interpersonal communication in the sense that I can resolve confrontations through virtual means; I am able to be more honest and say things that I would otherwise not have said. Getting my message across through the fact that I can organize my thoughts better before sending my message or the absence of the other person in front of me does not intimidate me as much. Also it interaction through CMC is available 24/7, the constant interaction helps to build the relationship even if I am not physically with my friend.
However, CMC had hindered my interpersonal communication as there is a lack of personal touch and creates a difference when interacting with the person in real life. As previously mentions, it causes my communication to be hyper-personal. The way I perceive the person and the way the person really is in real life may be different, it makes it more difficult to build a relationship as the pre-set mindset is difficult to change.