Everyday a child is born to a different woman. Women have babies every hour, minute, ans second of a day. Some are old, young, first time mothers, and even single mothers. Becoming pregnant with my first child was a significant event. I was still a baby trying to prepare for a new baby. Now I would be responsible for another human being.
There are many types of psychological perspectives but the two that applies to me becoming pregnant was cognitive and developmental perspectives. First I would like to discuss how cognitive perspective applied with my accepting the fact that I was pregnant. Adapting to the changes in my body and the overall preparation of my new baby being born. How will my baby respond to me? Can I handle this new responsibility? * My second perspective which is developmental applies to my behavior changing, habits, and interest. Now I had to develop parenting skills this ...view middle of the document...
My parents shared stories and memories about things from their pregnancies as well as how hard it would be to take care of a new baby. During my nine months I was able to learn everything from dealing with pregnancy issues to making the perfect bottle. One demonstration was all I needed in order to accomplish everything my child would need me for.
Almost six year after the birth on my son I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. I was so shocked on how much that changed. Due to confirmation bias of our memories every time I gained information about my second pregnancy I kept comparing it to knowledge that I learned during my first pregnancy. I felt like I should of went with what I knew and believed in instead of changing up. Even though all the information was new because it had been so long since I gave birth to my first child. I could not allow my mind to grasp the new information. This is because of proactive interference learning new information interferes with things that I already had stored. For instance, in 2008 when I had my son I was always told that he was to young to have any kids cold and flu medicines but now in 2014 I was actually told by her doctor to give her a little. I consonplated giving her the meds because I was afraid it would hurt her she was only 5 months at the time. Each time something occurred with my second pregnancy I went back to all the information I had stored from the things I learned the first time I was pregnant.
Having a baby at a young age is a life changing event. I had to change so many things in my life in order to be a parent. To be solely responsible for another human being was a big responsibility. Some people have it easy because their parent take on the responsibility of raise their grandchildren but I had to learn by watching others and from things I was told. Since I experienced being pregnant before having my second child was quite easy because I already knew what I needed to do. This matters because without this prior knowledge of carrying and caring for a child I would not have been ready to be a parent the second time around.
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