My Self Concept
My self-concept is not a very complex one, it consist of elements that a lot of 18 year old men would say they have with a few exceptions of course. The first element I wrote down athletic as my first choice because I put a lot of time and effort into sports, they’re very important to me. I have brotherly as an element because I have a younger brother who actually turned 14 today who I love very much and we do everything together maybe more than we should. Student is also very high on my list of elements because I like to take pride in my schoolwork, even though sometimes I can get lazy. I also have friendly as an element of myself concept, I don’t have a lot of friends but the circle of friends I do have we are very close almost like brothers. I’m a happy guy; I always look to have a good time and not be negative ...view middle of the document...
Talent is something that everyone has so of course I included that as an element talent can come from anywhere u may even think you don’t have one but you really do. I have been socially accepted which is obvious I believe everyone who is in the right state of mind should be accepted. I think I’m a fast learner I pick up on things very quickly and can adjust to different learning styles. I of course have high-self-esteem I’m not a shy person I won’t be put down by a person my self-esteem is too high for that. I’ve always been a person to be striving; I’m currently striving to become a professional baseball player with off season work outs 3 days a week. And last I have a never say never attitude when it comes to anything you can never tell me I can’t do something cause ill do it 100 times harder if u even dare to say I can’t.
Who do I think I am? I think I’m a hard working guy who will never give up and will never say “I’m done” or this is my last shot because it’s not. Life is full of chances to prove yourself and I will continue to strive on and get what I want in life. There may not be unique to everyone but they are in my mind because that’s what matters I mean it is called “self” concept. Everyone has unique elements and the ones I listed are special because that’s the way I live my life and no one can tell me that they aren’t special because they are. I incorporated these by just jogging my memory and coming up with what’s an element that’s important to myself concept and came up with a list of 20 elements that were necessary. Most important is the first one I listed athletic, because I take pride in sports and play to win and with a passion. I don’t believe others see me differently my family and friends don’t at least, strangers might look at me and say hey he looks shy or disinterested but that’s not the case at all just come talk to me or ask me a question I can talk to anyone. I’ve never been seen as a don’t judge a book by its cover kind of guy I am who I appear to be.