October 15, 2011
While I am extremely shy most of the time I do have a fun personality. I make friends easily and for long periods. Over the past five years my life has changed in many ways. God has been a major influence of that change. Religion plays a major role in my life and I find that in religion I have solace in comfort. I am engaged and have one son that I live and will die for.
One person who motivates me intensely is author Iyanla Vanzant.. Her words speak to me and keep me going when I am at my lowest. Between her and God I find the strength to ...view middle of the document...
My grandmother was strong willed, hardworking, but shy as well. Believing that traits can be passed down I received the shy and strong will from her.
Growing up in the inner-city sometimes made me angry and hopeless but I knew I wanted better in life and that is what I started focusing on. Grandmother use to always say to me “stay to yourself and no one would bother you” this mad me a loner and lack being sociable. As I got older I knew I wanted to be more sociable and open to others. God has given me the gift of a great personality but needing to find it within myself to show that to others. Showing others that I can become something no one thought I could. There is so much in the world I have missed because of being in the background or a wall flower and God has given me the strength to change that about myself.
Over the past five years I have begun to realize this goal was something I really need to accomplish. I spent more time talking to men just as friends to overcome the prejudice that I had against them because of my father. Enrolling in to school help me take steps to become more open to others within my space. Listening when people speak to me and understand their circumstances help me leave the judging of their character to God. If I could change one point in my life it would have been when I was young I often tried to be more sociable to fit in. I have learned recently that this is the wrong...