Personal responsibility essay
Older generations had trust in teachers that they could leave their children alone in a one on one setting and even employ corporal punishment if necessary.
My definition of personal responsibility is when someone takes ownership of a task, team or person weather they ultimately achieve success and or failure. Our education system is riddled with scandals and bouts of inappropriate relationships between faculty and students which ultimately have grave ramifications hindering these young people in their future and how they perceive the educational system. Today we are finding that this is no longer the case because not all people in ...view middle of the document...
The way that I will incorporate my plan to practice personal responsibility in my education is to decide whether or not I am having problems accepting personal responsibility. I feel that the best way to honestly accomplish this is to formulate a list of questions that focus on the “control” or lack thereof which others might or might not have over me. From there I will ask myself, the amount of times that I pass on the blame to others for something that I didn’t accomplish. Gauging these answers honestly and coming up with a solution to the problem will ultimately result in my scholastic success while in college. The website, Livestrong has come up with a great system to show you the proper steps in accepting personal responsibility.
“What are the steps in accepting personal responsibility?
Step 1: To decide if you are having problems accepting personal responsibility, answer the following questions in your journal:
a. How frequently do you claim that others have determined what you are today?
b. How easy is it to accept that you are responsible for your choices in life?
c. How easy it is to believe that you determine the direction your life takes?
d. How easy is it to blame others for where you are today?
e. What masks do you hide behind to avoid accepting personal responsibility?
f. How rational are you in dealing with the part you played in being who you are today?
g. How easy is it to accept blame or admit mistakes?
h. How easy is it to accept that you determine your feelings when negative events occur?
i. How easy is it to depend solely on yourself for acceptance, affirmation and approval?
j. How willing are you to be the sole determinant of the health of your self-esteem?
k. How frequently do you feel sorry for yourself?
l. How easy is it to let go of guilt if you stop rescuing those in your life?
m. How willingly do you take preventive steps to ensure your physical and emotional health?
n. How successfully have you practiced self-affirmation in your life?
o. How successfully have you practiced anger work out and letting go in order to get on with your life?
Step 2: Rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 5 as to the level of personal responsibility you have accepted in each of the following areas:
1 = always irresponsible
2 = usually irresponsible
3 = irresponsibility balanced out with responsibility (neutral)
4 = usually responsible
5 = always responsible
Rating Area in Life:
___ a. Taking the preventive and maintenance measures to ensure physical health
___ b. Taking the preventive and maintenance measures to ensure emotional health
___ c. Controlling weight and over-eating
___ d. Stopping smoking, excessive drinking and drug abuse
___ e. Controlling excessive gambling, shopping and sexual behavior
___ f. Controlling workaholism
___ g. Taking preventive and maintenance measures to ensure healthy relationships
___ h. Taking the necessary steps to overcome my current problems and troubles