Marriage and Relationships of Today
Helen Tish Taylor
Marriage and Divorce
Relationships are what make up our world today, they shape the way we see things and the way we do things. Marriage is one of the most important relationships we will ever experience, unfortunately over half of us that marry will divorce. This is a sad but true fact. The most confronting part of marriage for myself is the fact that you are promising something you don’t know if you can deliver, but if you were to vow “ I will be with you until it doesn’t work anymore” that wouldn’t be a promise- it would be a statement of fact. When you commit to something beyond what you know you can do “I will be with you ...view middle of the document...
He describes his studies as being like a CAT scan of a living relationship and that he’s been able to predict the future of marriages with an accuracy rate of over 90 percent. Gottman says that the basis of a stable marriage can be expressed mathematically: the ratio of positive to negative moments must be at least 5:1 -- and he offers a four step program for breaking through negativity and allowing communication and problem solving to work through. There are plenty of self-tests to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, what your strengths and weaknesses are, and what actions you need to take to save your marriage.
Markman, H., & Stanley, S,. & Blumberg, S. (2010). Fighting for your marriage. Jossey-Bass.
Howard Markman, PhD., is codirector of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver and a professor of psychology. Scott Stanley, PhD., is codirector of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver. Susan Blumberg, PhD., is director of Interpersonal Communication Options in Denver, CO. This is the third edition written on marriage enhancement and divorce prevention, featuring the latest research and opinions of our culture and society. This book is based on the widely acclaimed Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program approach. Studies have found that couples can use this approach to handle conflict more constructively and reduce the odds of ending their marriage.
Amatenstein, S., & Tessina, T. (2009). The complete marriage counselor. Adams Media.
Sherry Amatenstein, LMSW, is a staff therapist at Washington Square Institute and Long Island Consultation Center. She also runs relationship seminars around the country and works privately with singles and couples. She has appeared on national radio and TV programs including The Today Show, The Early Show, CNN, and more. This book offers advice based on counseling sessions with real couples from around the country. After polling the 50 most notable counselors in America the 101 most asked questions were selected and included in this book. Topics range from sex, money, infidelity, to communication and family.
Chapman, G. (2013). The five love languages. Northfield Publishing.
Gary Chapman, PhD, is the author of the #1 New York Times bestselling book, the five love languages. He has over 30 years of counseling experience and shows readers not just where they go wrong, but also how to grow and move forward. Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University. He also possess MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University. This book guides couples in identifying, understanding, and speaking to their spouses in a way they can understand. It teaches about quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Chapters are...