Making Poor Communication
COM: 200 Interpersonal
Instructor: Latricia Dezell
December 17, 2012
After reading the article Close Relationship Sometime Mask Poor Communication, I agree and understand the content of poor communication within a relationship, alone with communicating to strangers. Over time in relationship couples begin to get closer, and in some situations the communication is misunderstood. By taking a deeper look into the elements of the article Close Relationship Sometime Mask Poor Communication, I have experience several scenario of miscommunication with close relationship.
Communication can appear within close relationship as an illusion in a meaning of understanding or not. (Health day News, Jan 24, 2011). Misunderstanding is a part of a daily life and within relationship this can become an issue. As couple or spouse, overtime would like to have a comfort of knowing the person that ...view middle of the document...
The Interpersonal Communication is a process the person has to work on within themselves to become a better communicator. As stated to “encode the idea that he or she wants to communicate for understanding,” and Decode or interpret the message correctly” (Sole, K. 2011). I feel that these two tools can get a person started to improve on communicated with others. The responsibility of Interaction Models on both side of the conversation is also a very important when communicating. In fact, most people in relationship feel that automatically that the relationship has good communication and not poor communication skills.
Example: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend and leaving together for four year and seven months. My experience with miscommunication was a two weeks ago. I having pay the cable bill in four years and on the day I was off from work, she ask me to go an pay the bill. In the process of my girlfriend telling me the day the bill was due and where to go, I must admit, that I really was not paying attention. I did not take the bill on the day I was told and end up going the next day. In the process of trying to find the building I got lost because I didn’t listen to the direction that was given to me. Listening is an important part of communication, as stated “Listening requires focus and attention, and failure to listen is one of the key causes of miscommunication” (Sole, K. 2011).
In Conclusion the article was an overall view that without the key elements of communication it is hard to engage within conversation, and have an understanding to communication. In relationship, communication is lost and to improve it a couple must work on communicating without the illusion to a conversation. I have discovered that the best tool of communication is listening, because it can help better communication skill with my relationship.
Sole, K. (2011) Making Connection: Understanding Interpersonal Communication. San Diego, Ca. Bridge point Education, Inc. Http://Student.ashford.edu
Health Day, January 24, 2011: http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/brain-and-behavior/articles/2011/01