(How to Ask Someone Out For a Date)
Everybody fears rejection on asking someone out for a date; otherwise, there is no school for that kind of lesson. Actually we have to risk the possibility of rejection every once in a while in order to get the things we want. Asking someone out for a date would be easy without losing your sense of confidence and self-worth if you follow all of these steps below.
First and foremost, being friendly with the person that you want to ask for a date is the key. Make eye contact and smile at the person, so this will show the person that you are interested in them, and give them the opportunity to return the gesture, showing that they are too interested. If the person looks away or doesn’t smile back, they might not be interested. However, it might also mean that they are too shy ...view middle of the document...
Hold the door open for the next person coming through, even if they haven’t reached it yet. In other words, be a kind and generous person. Not only will it get her attention, but it will also make you feel good about yourself. Don’t be fake and do nice things only when she’s around, though. Help people all the time, in a wide variety of ways. She will notice, and so will the people she knows, and on the occasion that come up in a conversation, people will say “He’s such a great person!” and this girl will start thinking “Yeah….he is, isn’t he?” not only helping that can get you through this but also be the one who takes care of her, understands her in every situation, these will definitely get their attention that you are really the person they can rely on.
Last but not least, be ready to ask her for a date. Strike up a casual conversation that would range from complimenting the person, to talking about what’s going on in the room around you, or asking them a question. Ask the person out. Once the conversation has started, let the person know that you think they are interesting, and would like to get to know them. Suggest meeting for a coffee, lunch, dinner, etc. These are all very basic dates that are low-commitment, in case you don’t hit it off but one thing to avoid is asking them out to a movie on the first date, because it will not give you a chance to get to know one another. And finally, you must make sure that you will be diplomatic if they say no. If the person say no, smile and say something like: ‘’ Well, it was worth a try. Nice to meet you anyway!” and then leave them be. Don’t continue to bother the person once they have said no, and definitely don’t continue trying to convince them to go out with you. This will make you appear desperate, and make the other person feel uncomfortable.
In conclusion, asking someone out for a date is a serious thing to do but once you never give up then you are likely to achieve on of the biggest parts in your life.
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