Homosexuality is behavior of choosing a partner of the same sexual interaction. The term homosexual is used to characterize individuals who prefer romantic attachments and sexual interaction with the same sex and typically are maximally aroused by same sex erotic imagery. The word is used to describe both males and females.
There are many terms that are used to describe homosexuals. First, “Homo” is short for homosexual and the first part of the word means “same”. The term queer is used to denote something different or odd. The term lesbian is referred to females and originally referred to the people from the Greek Island of Lesbos, where the poet Sappho lived. Sappho wrote poems about ...view middle of the document...
This led to the start of Gay Pride Week that takes place in late June. These celebrations and demonstrations began in an atmosphere created by young people especially in college.
Today, the question is “What makes someone gay?” Right now, there is no known answer. We do know that there is no evidence that shows homosexuality is genetic. Many people believe that there is a “Gay Gene”, but that isn’t the case. There have been many other studies that have pointed to other causes of homosexuality. One study believes that it is caused by intrauterine influences. Other studies suggest postnatal environment, choices made during development, or it is a learned behavior. Here are some factors that could lead to homosexuality due to outside causes:
• An inherited temperament
• Didn’t have a good father/mother figure
• Sexual abuse
• Needs feeling of comfort
• Lack of sympathy, guilt
• Reliever of distress
• Born with certain features that have characteristics of homosexuals. Ex: sensitive disposition, creativeness
Discovering our sexuality is a very important process that everyone goes through although in most people it comes very easy. For those who think they are a homosexual it can be a very long a tiring process. There are six stages that most typical questionable homosexuals goes through.
Stage one: Identity Confusion. This stage is referred to the “who am I” stage. In this stage, one feels personal alienation. They become aware that they may be different from their peers. They go through denial, shame, anxiety and ambivalence.
Stage two: Identity Comparison. It is called the rationalization or bargaining stage. In this stage, the person starts to think that maybe they are homosexual or bisexual. They also think that they are alone and the only person in the world that thinks this of themselves.
Stage three: Identity Tolerance. In this stage, they think that they are probably homosexual. They begin to make contact with other homosexuals to counteract feelings of isolation. In this stage they tolerate rather then accepts the homosexual identity.
Stage four: Identity Acceptance. In this stage they continue and increase
contact with other homosexuals. They start to form friendships. They begin to accept rather then tolerate the homosexual self-image. The questions of “who am I?” and “Where do I belong” are answered.
Stage five: Identity Pride. This stage is referred to as “these are my people: stage. They develop awareness of incongruity that exists between the person’s own positive concept of self as a homosexual and awareness of society’s rejection. They become to feel angry with heterosexuals and have a “Them and Us” attitude.
Stage six: Identity Synthesis. In this stage the anger towards all heterosexuals lessens. They learn who to trust and who can be supportive. They develop their own unique personality.
After these stages are complete and they are comfortable with themselves, they have to...