Emotional Intelligence Paper
February 24, 2014
Professor Ron Goodnight
The difference between traditional cognitive intelligence and emotional intelligence is: cognitive intelligence is logical capability, for example, it has to do with: common sense, motive, evaluation, and placing things in order. This does not have to do with an emotion per say, but rather it is a common sense kind of intelligence. It does not have to be any social skills in involved. Cognitive intelligence is based on the mind skills, your thoughts without any help from anyone, the capability to unravel dilemmas and brainteasers.
Emotional intelligence is the capability to recognize emotions, to understand it, to way in and produce emotions to support, to be in charge of the emotions pertaining to one’s reaction and being considerate of their emotions. It consists of four attributes and ...view middle of the document...
Usually a person who can control themselves in an environment of other people, they are the ones who do not have cognitive intelligence. What was stated earlier, they can control their work environment with co-workers, but cannot figure how to budget their department spending. In the work life, advice can be given if a sense of urgency is presented. With emotional intelligence (EQ), facial express is easily read and controlled. When dealing with the many attitudes of co-workers one can easily categorize everyone’s emotions and to also understand it and in many cases they can relate to it.
When it comes to home life, it is almost similar to the work life, because there may be others that are living under the same roof as oneself. One is able to be familiar with everyone’s emotions inside the home, that way one would know how to control their family and their self. With home life one have a much closer relationship with their family, because of the emotion call love, so there will be more concern in that area. One can interpret what each family member will do or say at a certain point, so that is one way on controlling the situation.
When it comes to the personal life, the emotions can change from one level to another, but being in control is important and with emotional intelligence, one is in control of one’s self, because they do not want to let anyone else to have that control over them.
It is important to have total control of one’s self, if not someone can determine how they want you to react.
A person can contain both cognitive intelligence and emotional intelligence. It was stated that if you have one, then the other is less likely to exist. Anything is possible when it comes to the human mind. A person can add, multiply, divide, put a puzzle together and at the same time be able to recognize and identify the impression on a person’s face and be about to control that situation and the person. Everyone have that ability, but the percentage is different in each individual.
Goleman, Daniel. (1995). Emotional Intelligence. Why It Can Matter More Than IQ. (10th ed) Chapter 1-5.