Instructor Kara Brunson
Couples and Communication
September 10, 2012
There are quite a few definitions for the various types of communication. Referencing to our text, (Sole, 2011) communication is described as complex; and that it requires a number of skills and both ongoing learning and practice to improve our skills. The most widely used communication is interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication is the process of exchanging messages, usually between two people, to create and share meaning (Sole, 2011). To be able to function in today’s society; we all have to communicate with each other.
In our text, Close Relationships Sometimes Mask Poor Communication, I agree and disagree with the concept of communication among couple and strangers. I must say that my sister and her husband ...view middle of the document...
Needless to say he was really upset that she left. Had he just told her to wait he would not have been left at the barbershop.
Now cannot guarantee that this type of miscommunication will not happen again. I can’t say that it won’t happen again between the two of them because they never listen to each other. They always assume what the other one is thinking. What I can say is that it is better is to listen effectively than to always assume what our partners are thinking. To make their communications clear, they will have to listen to each other.
I must admit that I was a bit disappointed in the article, “Close Relationships Sometimes Mask Poor Communication.” There are many different types of relationships. This article, however, seemed to only focus on marriages. Since the study was based on married couples, there should have been more research conducted on other relationships. It should not have been based on having the twenty-four couples sitting back trying to figure out what the other one was trying to convey, (Anonymous, 2011). I think close family relationships should have also been addressed. The research could have focused on relationships between siblings. There are those that really love each other and those that have extreme hate for each other. The article could have also focused on couples that are not married but live together. Another type of relationship that I think should have been addressed is one between friends. More than often our best friends know us a lot better than our spouses do. The article would have been better had it not only focused on married couples.
Sole, Kathy Making Connections, Understanding Interpersonal Communication
Retrieved from 2011, Bridgepoint Education, Inc.
Close Relationships Sometimes Mask Poor Relationships. (2011, January). U.S. News & World Report, 1. Retrieved from ABI/INFORM Global. Document ID: 2270370591