Communication is Key
Sept. 6, 2012
Communication is Key
Women tend to want to talk and men think that women should know what they are thinking without saying anything at all. This is often the downfall of a marriage, the failure to communicate. It depends on who you ask if self-disclosure is good for a marriage or not. Most women think that it’s good to talk about their feelings, likes and dislikes. Women will more willingly tell about things going on in their day with work or friends. Men, on the other hand, seem to think that women share too much. Men do not normally like to talk about feelings and they will not easily or willingly share their thoughts. Self-disclosure is a means of communication that needs ...view middle of the document...
It has been my experience that when I tried to open the lines of communication with my husband, it normally ends in a comment like “do we have to talk everything to death”.
Self-disclosure is an important part of any relationship, and there has to be a starting point. For people to communicate, someone must take the initiative and make contact with another person. The other person must then respond in some way for a connection to occur (Sole, 2011). Men and women look at communication in different way, in most cases, but when they can find it in them to communicate with each other; their relation becomes closer and happier. As a rule men do not like to share their feelings on much of anything, but they do agree that self-disclosure is healthy for a relation mainly when the woman is doing most of the disclosing. This way they can help if there is a problem for the woman, and in most cases men believe they can take care of their own problems or concerns.
Communication is key in successful relationships. Men and women alike need to take time each day to talk openly with each other about whatever is important to them. They need to share the good and the bad of what is happening in their lives. If people would talk to each other, many misunderstandings could be avoided, and a happier relationship would be the result.
Schoenberg, N. (2011, Jan 17). Can we talk? Researcher Talks About the Role of Communication in Happy Marriages. McClatchy - Tribune News Service, pp. n/a. Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com/docview/840600645?accountid=32521
Sole, K. (2011). COM 200: Making Connections: Understanding Interpersonal Communication (Kindle Locations 3224-3225). Bridgepoint Education Inc.