Cognitive Dissonance Paper
July 11, 2011
Professor Adrian Fletcher, M.A.
Cognitive Dissonance Paper
The scenario of this paper is a young girl is living in a good Christian home. Her current boyfriend is trying to push her to have sex before she believes she is ready for this type of commitment or intensity. She has been taught to wait until marriage to have sex with her new husband. Because of her boyfriends intense pressure she believes she is being pulled to give in to him before they marry. She does not want to disappoint her family by breaking the rules of the household but she truly does love the boyfriend. Does she give into the boyfriend or obey the family ground ...view middle of the document...
We are brought up with fundamental values that have been instilled in us. These are the predominate values that influence our lives. To conduct ourselves ethically is to act in a way harmonious with what is deemed to be right or moral. Ethical behavior is the foundation of trust.
In the case of this young girl, she is faced with an ethical dilemma based on her upbringing. If she chooses to give in to her boyfriends’ prodding to have sex she will have the pricking of her conscience. She will have feelings of guilt for going against her moral values. She would have to hide the fact from family and friends in order not to be chastised by the group. This in turn would cause her much mental grief.
According to Myers; “The bottom line: we view our social worlds through the spectacles of our beliefs, attitudes and values. That is one reason why our beliefs are so important is that they shape our interpretation of everything else “(2010). The Trademark of the human race is our ability to adapt to our environment. We acclimate because of our ever changing world. “Contrasted with other animals Nature has humans on a more relaxed leash so to speak. Our shared human biology enables our cultural diversity. It enables those in one culture to value promptness, welcome frankness, or accept premarital sex, whereas those in another culture may not.”
Human beings are the channels who endorse the “ethical guidelines set before them.” There are specific aspects that affect our ethical decisions. It could be viable to impart an environment that advocates ethical decisiveness by acclimating elements that sway the person. Early childhood ethical awareness seems to be affected by the patterns of mothers and fathers, educators, spiritual leaders, and organization leaders. Goliath states: “Adult relationships influencing ethical decisions including Bosses, friends, spouses, parents and spiritual leaders also play a formative role. Consistent behavior, honesty, openness, and willingness to listen appear to be related to perception of another's ethicality and influence (2008).” Another influence on ethical decision making is the Code of conduct. If an individual observes the daily action of others the way he or she makes decisions can be greatly impacted by codes of conduct.
Reciprocal Relationships between Behavior and Attitude
Many reciprocal relationships between behaviors and attitudes are involved especially when they are combined with religion. Being brought up in a Christian home is an environment that not only provides growth and stimulation but also expectations. A person’s individual life is surrounded by Christian values that he or she are expected to follow. For example, in this particular situation the girl’s boyfriend is trying to press her into a sexual relationship. This is not allowed in her religion until an individual is married. So naturally her behavior would include presenting herself as a pure young lady and not partaking in these...