Emotions, Stress, and Health: Christian Perspectives on Self-Esteem
Jason A Redcay
The meaning of the term “esteem” is favorable in that it gives a person to his own self. It is the well regarded condition and feeling of delight approval. Therefore, self-esteem is a regard for self to think and favorably honor oneself. Undoubtedly, it is a chief part of our daily life in which people engage. Christians who spread the teaching of self-esteem create a weak showing at finding self- esteem ideologies and patterns in the Bible. The pure fact is that the concept of self- esteem movements is neither scientific nor Biblical. It is only an exaggerated zeal that ...view middle of the document...
It is suggested that if people would feel a certain way about themselves, they will perform greatly and do well in their lives. We are sinful by nature and therefore every person contains a bad self-image of varying degrees. Most people try to hide their bad self-image by applying different methods to cover it up: some do with shyness, so people cannot catch their bad personality. On the other hand, people try to portray themselves as naive and a good person. We should take some examples of image proponents by both Christian circles and seculars, for getting the teachings of self-esteem.
It is suggested by James that women should require a dose of self-esteem and personal worth, for their good health (1981).
Barnett and Rivers wrote that feeling good about themselves can be the reason for a person’s total well-being (1984).
It is suggested by Philip that mothers decide to go for an abortion, due to their low self-esteem (1984).
Moreover, Walter suggests that self-love is the criterion for good self-conduct. Without it there will be no love for other people. We cannot love our neighbors or God, until or unless you initially love your own self (2001).
Another prescription is formed by Shirley that low self-esteem can be directly related to depression and other physical and emotional illness, such as sexual promiscuity, substance abuse, and even suicide (1991).
According to all proponents; depressions, stress, poor mental health, unhappy emotions, are all the results of low self-esteem or poor self-image. We have analyzed that self-image advocates build a strong sense of self-esteem into the lives of people. We closely glance over the matter of fact, if people are unable to love God and others because of poor self-image than building self-esteem may become the core goal of all the churches.
The Biblical View of Self-Esteem
It has been observed that the force of deceiving human minds seems endless. We can learn by biblical examples that deny the concept of self-esteem and poor self-image. In Psalm 139:23-24, it is understood that none of the two-hundred criminals exposed their selves to be evil; they all thought good about their selves and were considered as a good person even when planning for attempting crime (1976).
It is important for every person to know that one of the major goals of the Bible is to correct the high view man has of himself. On the other hand, these things are now understood by Christian leaders to propose the opposite of the actual fact. The imagination and observation of such possible things propose that the Bible does not cater to our self-deception, but it seeks to correct it. An interesting observation of C.S. Lewis provides positive information about self-esteem before self-esteem became exaggerated and popular. The saved soul to whom Christ says, ‘well done,’ the woman whose beauty is praised by her lover, the child who is patted on the back for doing a lesson well, is pleased and ought to be. In these...