Can Internet Dating be considered real love? It has the basis of a relationship, but without human contact. I think that no matter how good two people connect online their actual meeting may not be as passionate as they thought it to be. Therefore, I personally would not use an internet matchmaking service to find a partner.
“If you’ve been together for decades, chances are you met your valentine through family, work or in other traditional ways. But if your relationship is newer, it’s more likely you met online. According to according to a new nationally representative survey of 3009 adults with a romantic partner, the internet has now over taken all the ways ...view middle of the document...
The way that a viewer of profile reacts will be the key to if they are going to want to go on a date and meet you or if they are just never going to look at the profile again. But the nice thing about these profiles is that you can put what you want people to know about you and what you do not want people to know about you.
Most people's primary reason for going on an online date is the anonymity that this form of dating offers. You don't have to tell your date your real name or your real profession. You can be anyone you want to be. The mystery adds to the excitement of dating someone you only know in cyberspace.
So basically anyone that is going to make a profile is going to pump themselves up to be something that they might not really be. (E/C chapter 6, pg 25) Online dating provides an efficient way for people to meet prospective partners and to get to know them through e-mails and chats. Certainly the stigma which was attached to internet dating a few years ago seems to have passed and people are attracted by the advantages of internet dating: having the privacy to 'look around from the comfort of their own home', which means 'you don't have to meet a middleman or go to an actual dating agency office, which takes a lot of courage'.
Online dating seems to be the easier way to meet people with no stress. (E/C chapter 6, pg 27) The people can say whatever they want and not worry about what the person on the other side is thinking or what weird face they’re making. At the same time all of the information can be false and be dangerous. Some of these people lie about aspects of their life, for instance marital status and age. Often times they deceive these people by neglecting to mention in their profile that they are married or have kids. “When it comes to online date, we’ve come to expect deception.”(E/C, pg 36)
But like any other thing that involves matters of the heart, online dating also has its disadvantages. While the absence of physical contact can provide protection, it can also hinder an intimate relationship. You'll have to content yourself with emoticons, photos and other images (for chatting), or videos (for webcam dating). Anyone who's ever experienced a long-distance affair, which thrives only on letters and phone calls, know that nothing compares to human touch and togetherness when it comes to keeping the flames of romance alive.
The anonymity involved in online dating can also be a double-edged sword. You're not the only one who's embracing a different persona online - your date...